Stalking Your Ex…STOP IT and Move the Fuck On!

Yes Break ups suck, I know, we have all been there. And, we all deal with break ups on our own way.

Love can feel like an addiction, all those emotions, highs and lows, the habits we form with our significant others, those happy feelings we have when we are with them, etc etc. Then, boom it is all gone. And, we are left wondering where to go from there…

Maybe the break up wasn’t something you wanted in the first place, but your partner no longer wants to be with you. That’s a hard thing to accept. Why don’t they want to be with us anymore? Why don’t they love me anymore? All these questions you are left wondering are very hard to understand and accept ,and it makes it tough to move on when we don’t fully comprehend the whys and the hows and we want to make sense of it all.

But the fact is, that IT IS OVER, finished, done, not anymore, the end…..

So what’s next?

Stalking your ex…Social media makes it so damn easy to do this
We want to know who they are with, are they happy, are they sad, are they crying, have they replaced you, what are they doing, where are they at, etc etc….

Now, you have a different kind of addiction, a craving you HAVE to full filled …
You find ways to know what they are up to, through mutual friends, co-workers,
stalking their social media, creating fake profiles, or sock-puppet accounts so you can spy on them,
even going as far as commenting on their post or pictures, pretending to be someone else,
tagging them on other people’s post or pictures they are in so you can call their attention, etc, etc.

If your ex ended ALL communication with you but you are still trying to “talk to them” that is stalking.

If your ex block you on all their social media, email, phone number and you are still trying to find ways to communicate with them, that is stalking.

If your ex already told you they don’t want you anywhere near them and they don’t want you around them in any way, shape or form and you are still trying to get near them and being around their space, that is stalking and very closed to harassment.

If your ex told you they don’t want to be friends with you and you are still acting like you are amicable, you are delusional.

If you are telling people the break up was “amicable” even though your ex has you BLOCKED and wont talk to you and doesn’t want to talk to you, you are delusional and you might want to seek help.

Break ups are tough, they suck, they hurt and they are confusing, I get it, is not an easy thing to deal with, but when is it enough? When will you tell yourself is time to move the fuck on?
When is it time for you to leave your ex just be?

• They don’t want you back.
• They don’t want to be with you.
• Accept it.
• Move on.
• Dear Ex,
• I’m done with you.
• I don’t want you back.
• I don’t want to hear anything you have to say.
• We are not friends nor do I want you as a friend.
• Our break up was not amicable in any way.
  STOP lying to people about that.
• I have you block for a reason.
• STOP trying to contact me.
• Don’t tag me on post on other people’s profiles.
• It is OVER.
• Move on.